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RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Pat - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:35 PM)SwankyPants31 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 12:40 PM)SDCore Wrote: What the actual fuck is wrong with people in this league. Why are people mad @infinitempg. Honestly, he didn't do anything wrong except be a nice guy and not betray an individuals confidence. This league has some serious meglomaniac personas who think they are bigger than an individual. Jiggly, a person I've notoriously not gotten on with, created a new account to shed some of the old stigma, came clean and outs the people who help him and you all help shit on those individuals. Are you fucking kidding me? Infy has done more for this league than pretty much anyone, yet in one sweeping blow he is villainized by people. Even people who were close to him. Honestly fucking disgusting and disappointing.

This is the correct take. As others have pointed out in the thread what Infinite helped Jiggly do was well within the rules at the time and that only changed due to the most recent rules summit. I also believe Infinite when he says that he respected Jiggly's wishes and kept that information confidential. I understand that people are upset about this, most notably Philly and London since they essentially lost out on a player/pick, but trying to take it out on Infinite is the wrong move.

So after what you and SD said here I had to back and read all the prior comments. No one, at least not from Philly, insinuated and punishment be lobbied at Infinite. Jimi asked him and numbers for just an explanation as to why they kept it a secret. The only time, "punishment for conspiring" even came up was Raven making a joke.

For the record, I don't want a punishment for Infinite or anyone involved. I'd rather just move on and hopefully enjoy the new season.


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Memento Mori - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 10:24 AM)Punter715 Wrote: I've seen this idea of, "we're all anonymous, so what's the difference" thrown out a few times, and while I think it comes from the right place and I get the meaning, to me it's the single biggest reason why these second accounts are wrong. Unless we choose to be, we are all anonymous and that means that you are relying on others to be truthful to a strong degree. To be a member of a community like this you have to believe that others are acting in good faith. That is required by both sides. 

If someone with possibly a bad reputation wants to come back and make a new name for themselves they should in 99.999% of situations be allowed to do so, and should be allowed to do it without being harassed or bullied or anything like that. With that, though, the other users here have the right to make that choice for themselves. If you hide who you are you are taking that choice away from them, and that's not fair.
Thank you for this section @"Punter715", I think it's really well-put.


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - run_CMC - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:36 PM)Swanty Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 12:45 PM)run_CMC Wrote: imagine HO making a rule that clearly targets a person’s current situation in order to resolve it (oh well HO does HO things that’s their job), but then responding by coming after the people who were essentially just protecting a dude from being continuing to be bullied. Couldn’t be the ISFL right?

To confirm, HO has no interest in 'coming after' anyone who was aware of this beforehand.
HI SORRY I NOW SEE I LEFT OUT AN IMPORTANT WORD

i should’ve said, but then OTHER PEOPLE respond by (etc)
sincerely sorry about my mistake. People coming after infinite and co rn are being dumb. HO has done nothing wrong and deserves no flak either. Very sorry about that, Ik HO gets shit on enough as it is lol


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - hotdog - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:45 PM)Punter715 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 01:29 PM)jdourtled Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 11:08 AM)zeagle1 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 11:01 AM)unconfident69 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 10:56 AM)zeagle1 Wrote: can someone tell me what the fuck hololive is? and what a vtuber is? I've never felt more like a boomer than I do right now
Hololive is a Youtube talent agency that has a bunch of Vtubers on it. A Vtuber (virtual youtuber) is a youtuber who does youtuber stuff, but instead of using a facecam they use a computer generated and motion tracked anime avatar. I dont personally enjoy it but i can see the appeal

that... actually makes sense lol

Thanks dude!
You can also become a talking hamburger, which I feel is the most important part

If you could become a hot dog, would you eat yourself?

wtf


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Buttersqauch101 - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:45 PM)Punter715 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 01:29 PM)jdourtled Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 11:08 AM)zeagle1 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 11:01 AM)unconfident69 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 10:56 AM)zeagle1 Wrote: can someone tell me what the fuck hololive is? and what a vtuber is? I've never felt more like a boomer than I do right now
Hololive is a Youtube talent agency that has a bunch of Vtubers on it. A Vtuber (virtual youtuber) is a youtuber who does youtuber stuff, but instead of using a facecam they use a computer generated and motion tracked anime avatar. I dont personally enjoy it but i can see the appeal

that... actually makes sense lol

Thanks dude!
You can also become a talking hamburger, which I feel is the most important part

If you could become a hot dog, would you eat yourself?
I feel like the question you should be asking is whether you would be a sandwich or not


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Swanty - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 02:08 PM)run_CMC Wrote: i should’ve said, but then OTHER PEOPLE respond by (etc)
sincerely sorry about my mistake. People coming after infinite and co rn are being dumb. HO has done nothing wrong and deserves no flak either. Very sorry about that, Ik HO gets shit on enough as it is lol

No worries dude Heart


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - SwankyPants31 - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:52 PM)Punter715 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 01:35 PM)SwankyPants31 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 12:40 PM)SDCore Wrote: What the actual fuck is wrong with people in this league. Why are people mad @infinitempg. Honestly, he didn't do anything wrong except be a nice guy and not betray an individuals confidence. This league has some serious meglomaniac personas who think they are bigger than an individual. Jiggly, a person I've notoriously not gotten on with, created a new account to shed some of the old stigma, came clean and outs the people who help him and you all help shit on those individuals. Are you fucking kidding me? Infy has done more for this league than pretty much anyone, yet in one sweeping blow he is villainized by people. Even people who were close to him. Honestly fucking disgusting and disappointing.

This is the correct take. As others have pointed out in the thread what Infinite helped Jiggly do was well within the rules at the time and that only changed due to the most recent rules summit. I also believe Infinite when he says that he respected Jiggly's wishes and kept that information confidential. I understand that people are upset about this, most notably Philly and London since they essentially lost out on a player/pick, but trying to take it out on Infinite is the wrong move.

So after what you and SD said here I had to back and read all the prior comments. No one, at least not from Philly, insinuated and punishment be lobbied at Infinite. Jimi asked him and numbers for just an explanation as to why they kept it a secret. The only time, "punishment for conspiring" even came up was Raven making a joke.

For the record, I don't want a punishment for Infinite or anyone involved. I'd rather just move on and hopefully enjoy the new season.

Neither SD or I said anything about punishments, more about the general shit slinging going on. And I think saying Jimi asked him and numbers for just an explanation is a bit of a downplay of a post that included statements like  "I hold y'all to a bit of a higher esteem" and "It's frankly infuriating to think both of you had a part in this scheme and let it go on".

I'm willing to give him the benefit of a doubt and assume it was something said in the heat of the moment, but that's the kind of thing I hate seeing in situations like this.


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - C9Van - 07-17-2021

God I cannot stress how much I love this league recently.


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Drip - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 01:35 PM)SwankyPants31 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 12:40 PM)SDCore Wrote: What the actual fuck is wrong with people in this league. Why are people mad @infinitempg. Honestly, he didn't do anything wrong except be a nice guy and not betray an individuals confidence. This league has some serious meglomaniac personas who think they are bigger than an individual. Jiggly, a person I've notoriously not gotten on with, created a new account to shed some of the old stigma, came clean and outs the people who help him and you all help shit on those individuals. Are you fucking kidding me? Infy has done more for this league than pretty much anyone, yet in one sweeping blow he is villainized by people. Even people who were close to him. Honestly fucking disgusting and disappointing.

This is the correct take. As others have pointed out in the thread what Infinite helped Jiggly do was well within the rules at the time and that only changed due to the most recent rules summit. I also believe Infinite when he says that he respected Jiggly's wishes and kept that information confidential. I understand that people are upset about this, most notably Philly and London since they essentially lost out on a player/pick, but trying to take it out on Infinite is the wrong move.
  
Agreed with both of these. I think trying to help somebody have fun and be involved in a way that isn't harmful to anybody (minus Philly and London) should not cause what has happened. Personally, I think that we all know Infinite and that they have the best interest of the league and the players at heart. We should use this to set precedence in rule changes for the future, especially because I don't think (and I bet a lot of you agree with me) that this league is done growing yet. I hope that the league is around for a lot more time, and that dedicated users don't feel ashamed for trying to help out other users become a bigger part of our community. 


Also, I wasn't around for jiggly the first time, and I haven't heard of them until this. Was he a bad guy? I've gotten a little info and it seems like they didn't intentionally hurt someone or do anything extremely bad. So If it was a multi or phoenix or whatever for someone who intentionally hurt another user, or is a bad person, then I would get the backlash. I definitely don't have all the info, but I do believe that it's unfair to judge how terrible or bad a person is if they are just strange. 

I'm gonna go do my predictions.


RE: An Obvious Confession and an Apology - Oles - 07-17-2021

(07-17-2021, 04:04 PM)CommishDrip Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 01:35 PM)SwankyPants31 Wrote:
(07-17-2021, 12:40 PM)SDCore Wrote: What the actual fuck is wrong with people in this league. Why are people mad @infinitempg. Honestly, he didn't do anything wrong except be a nice guy and not betray an individuals confidence. This league has some serious meglomaniac personas who think they are bigger than an individual. Jiggly, a person I've notoriously not gotten on with, created a new account to shed some of the old stigma, came clean and outs the people who help him and you all help shit on those individuals. Are you fucking kidding me? Infy has done more for this league than pretty much anyone, yet in one sweeping blow he is villainized by people. Even people who were close to him. Honestly fucking disgusting and disappointing.

This is the correct take. As others have pointed out in the thread what Infinite helped Jiggly do was well within the rules at the time and that only changed due to the most recent rules summit. I also believe Infinite when he says that he respected Jiggly's wishes and kept that information confidential. I understand that people are upset about this, most notably Philly and London since they essentially lost out on a player/pick, but trying to take it out on Infinite is the wrong move.
  
Agreed with both of these. I think trying to help somebody have fun and be involved in a way that isn't harmful to anybody (minus Philly and London) should not cause what has happened. Personally, I think that we all know Infinite and that they have the best interest of the league and the players at heart. We should use this to set precedence in rule changes for the future, especially because I don't think (and I bet a lot of you agree with me) that this league is done growing yet. I hope that the league is around for a lot more time, and that dedicated users don't feel ashamed for trying to help out other users become a bigger part of our community. 


Also, I wasn't around for jiggly the first time, and I haven't heard of them until this. Was he a bad guy? I've gotten a little info and it seems like they didn't intentionally hurt someone or do anything extremely bad. So If it was a multi or phoenix or whatever for someone who intentionally hurt another user, or is a bad person, then I would get the backlash. I definitely don't have all the info, but I do believe that it's unfair to judge how terrible or bad a person is if they are just strange. 

I'm gonna go do my predictions.

Jiggly never did anything that would make them a bad person or a bad user. Jiggly just has always had the misfortune of being bullied and the butt of jokes constantly, and he is still mocked and bullied even when he was not around. It's a massive issue and it's why jiggly created the phoenix account, so he could get away from that and just enjoy the league. It's very frustrating that someone who has been in the league since S1, and someone who has been harassed and bullied since S1, cannot enjoy the league that they've been in forever. I helped jiggly check rules, I helped jiggly with stuff regarding the account and never told a soul out of respect for his wishes. The only thing I didn't know was the rookie task. 

Jiggly has been a victim of bullying and harassment, and is someone who deserves to be able to have a new account to get away from that. Even if jiggly isn't mocked or bullied or harassed as much now, it's still an issue and the reputation he has is because of people who never interact with him and who don't know who he is except for what other people say. He has never done anything worthy of punishment and he has never hurt anyone or done things wrong, maybe the biggest thing was Chicago a year or so ago with that situation, in which he fought for the team he cared about and that rubbed people the wrong way, but other than that jiggly's reputation is something that lasts because people make it last.