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Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Jiggly_333 - 01-25-2020
You guys must all hate this woman, don't you?
Straight up, this could be a normal tampering case; but you guys all have to make it this massive thing because she also talked shit with her friends.
Bex got a reasonable punishment for what she did.
DD got a just punishment for what he did.
Now let Bex fucking live.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - timeconsumer - 01-25-2020
Back in my day our scandals were so much juicier.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Buttersqauch101 - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 06:43 PM)Jiggly_333 Wrote:You guys must all hate this woman, don't you?Yes because not everyone minds being lied to and then having a lot of shit talked behind your back
Straight up, this could be a normal tampering case; but you guys all have to make it this massive thing because she also talked shit with her friends.
Bex got a reasonable punishment for what she did.
DD got a just punishment for what he did.
Now let Bex fucking live.
If this was anyone else in the league you wouldn’t be reacting like this
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - WALDO - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 07:43 PM)Jiggly_333 Wrote:You guys must all hate this woman, don't you?
Straight up, this could be a normal tampering case; but you guys all have to make it this massive thing because she also talked shit with her friends.
Bex got a reasonable punishment for what she did.
DD got a just punishment for what he did.
Now let Bex fucking live.
in a hypothetical situation: If it were Dwyer we would all be considering and saying the same things.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Sermokala - 01-25-2020
Boom didn't get hate for attacking bex. Boom got hate beacuse he couldn't wrap his mind about why people had a problem with him attacking bex. He dug into his idea that he did nothing wrong and refused to acept that people could have a legitimate reason to dislike what he did.
I didn't read anything in the discord as I belive people have a right to privacy as most reasonable people do. I was deeply hurt by hearing that I had a channel to myself and that I was due an apology for what was said. I'm deeply embaressed and angry that said discussions were leaked for everyone to read. Bex DD and NOLA arn't the only people involved in this.
I agree with all the results other then the fact that NOLA is getting out of this without even a slap on the wrist. I think a third round draft pick should be taken from them and/or SJS be given one.
I don't really know for sure though. I'm glad I don't have to actually deal with any of this.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Jiggly_333 - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 08:16 PM)WALDO Wrote:in a hypothetical situation: If it were Dwyer we would all be considering and saying the same things.Tbh, I'd be like "Yup, sounds like him" and move on because I figure that he'd have some frustrations to yell at people.
With Bex I thought "Wow, that sucks. I hope people don't hate her now," because I know that she's a good person who has a lot of pressure on her already.
And if it were Dermo, it wouldn't even be a feckin story because he does that sort of shit in public.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Baron1898 - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 09:05 PM)Jiggly_333 Wrote:Tbh, I'd be like "Yup, sounds like him" and move on.Not trying to get into an argument here since I’ve made my peace with Bex personally, but maybe it’s the fact that Bex decidedly did not have a reputation of someone who talked shit behind people’s backs that has made this such a huge deal. Ignoring all the tampering stuff, which I believe has been handled rather fairly here.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Jiggly_333 - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 09:08 PM)Baron1898 Wrote:Not trying to get into an argument here since I’ve made my peace with Bex personally, but maybe it’s the fact that Bex decidedly did not have a reputation of someone who talked shit behind people’s backs that has made this such a huge deal. Ignoring all the tampering stuff, which I believe has been handled rather fairly here.This is much like the comparison between my (irl) sister and I, where she's been a complete asshole for most of my life and I'm expected by my parents to be a model citizen because of that contrast.
It's an unfair standard to separate the two things. I can understand the shock, but I feel like if Dwyer or Dermo said the things she said we wouldn't be calling for their heads as strongly.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - White Cornerback - 01-25-2020
(01-26-2020, 02:15 AM)Jiggly_333 Wrote:This is much like the comparison between my (irl) sister and I, where she's been a complete asshole for most of my life and I'm expected by my parents to be a model citizen because of that contrast.
It's an unfair standard to separate the two things. I can understand the shock, but I feel like if Dwyer or Dermo said the things she said we wouldn't be calling for their heads as strongly.
y'all only fooling yourselves if you think it's possible to deal with you guys without either venting or attempting to kill yourself, some of us have even tried both to deal with it all.
Bex Punishment and NOLA Tampering Accusations - Jiggly_333 - 01-25-2020
(01-25-2020, 09:20 PM)White Cornerback Wrote:y'all only fooling yourselves if you think it's possible to deal with you guys without either venting or attempting to kill yourself, some of us have even tried both to deal with it all.And this just proves my point about how what she said doesn't matter.