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I’m sorry for the mess - Jimi64 - 07-17-2021 With the decision from higher up to have the confidential deleted, I’d just like to apologize for having been a source of negativity and hurt feelings. When I came up with the idea to bring this media back, I received a lot of support for it. I can enjoy good drama from the outside, and I certainly received no opinions from anybody that this would end up being such a bad idea. I honestly feel pretty terrible about it now though. When the original Dogwood Confidential came out it wasn’t seen as such a personally destructive piece as mine ended up being, but frankly I should’ve been more aware of how the responses would be taken this time around and maybe deleted some of the stronger messages before they went public. On one hand, though I was really just delivering the anon messages from other users, it was still posted under my name, and I am responsible for it seeing the light of day. To those whom it affected, you are worth much more than what the limited opinions of strangers in a sim league may think or say. RE: I’m sorry for the mess - Big Edd - 07-17-2021 Don’t apologize lmfao. League needed some pizzazz anyways RE: I’m sorry for the mess - DeadlyPlayer - 07-17-2021 Love ya Jimi <3 RE: I’m sorry for the mess - C9Van - 07-17-2021 (07-17-2021, 05:41 PM)Jimi64 Wrote: With the decision from higher up to have the confidential deleted, I’d just like to apologize for having been a source of negativity and hurt feelings. Nah bro, genuinely thank you for that <3 I expected to be 1 of the more honest answers and the league made me look tame and went full running back Lazzy on everyone ever. Was fucking amazing to see how people really think in this league. RE: I’m sorry for the mess - Memento Mori - 07-17-2021 I know you didn't have any ill intent. Don't think any less of you for it, you're great. RE: I’m sorry for the mess - Exilate - 07-17-2021 ![]() ![]() ![]() RE: I’m sorry for the mess - 37thchamber - 07-17-2021 seems to be a lot of blame being thrown around today. maybe, just maybe, its time for this entire community to take a long hard look at itself. RE: I’m sorry for the mess - Sermokala - 07-17-2021 (07-17-2021, 07:54 PM)37thchamber Wrote: seems to be a lot of blame being thrown around today.That would risk the community having to come to terms what the pandemic did to us all which I really doubt anyone wants to do. RE: I’m sorry for the mess - AdamS - 07-17-2021 No we were always this way. It's actually somewhat tamer now. Two years ago there almost wouldn't have been any eyes batted at a bunch of questions getting unshockongly toxic answers. Especially when some of them WERE leading directly into that. Allright @Jimi64 I'm willing to buy that you didn't a tually intend for this mess to go down. So owth that in mind, I'm sorry I responded harshly. I saw it as you stirring shot between the two events and reacted as I do (actually also tamer than two years ago). RE: I’m sorry for the mess - speculadora - 07-17-2021 (07-17-2021, 09:56 PM)AdamS Wrote: No we were always this way. It's actually somewhat tamer now. I'm not sure I agree with this although it's never been perfect here. but I'd argue we're moving in the wrong direction re: "toxicity", however you want to define it. but I suppose that was also bound to happen when the league began to expand in size. even if we have more good people here overall, the loudest ones can be kinda shitty |