I'm a strong believer in tough love. The very first thing I would do is sit down with the relative. I would tell the relative what I think is going to happen if they keep doing what they are doing now. They will never make it to ISFL. They will never get a decent job. They will never get into a meaningful relationship with anyone. Then I would one by one explain why. They will not make it to the ISFL, because they are not determined and focused enough. The competition is intense, only the best will make it. Kokot family line is not talented enough to rely on skill alone, everybody in the Kokot family needs to be extremely hardworking to make it. Even then nothing is guaranteed.
Ignoring school is a recipe for disaster. If and when the relative fails in sports, they will need a real job. You need some kind of education for that to happen. I would perhaps take the kid to meet local drug addicts and force the kid to ask some questions from the drug addicts. That should open the relative's eyes a little bit. Finally, the attitude of focusing on sports alone and ignoring school is going to translate into failed relationships. It takes a lot of work and patience to make any relationship work. If the kid can't sit in school and feel uncomfortable, every relationship will fail as the kid will think they can just give up and nothing will happen.
That is a simplified response, but the point is I would talk to the kid straight up.
Ignoring school is a recipe for disaster. If and when the relative fails in sports, they will need a real job. You need some kind of education for that to happen. I would perhaps take the kid to meet local drug addicts and force the kid to ask some questions from the drug addicts. That should open the relative's eyes a little bit. Finally, the attitude of focusing on sports alone and ignoring school is going to translate into failed relationships. It takes a lot of work and patience to make any relationship work. If the kid can't sit in school and feel uncomfortable, every relationship will fail as the kid will think they can just give up and nothing will happen.
That is a simplified response, but the point is I would talk to the kid straight up.
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Thanks Slothman07!